Hold Tight When the World Pulls You Apart

DAILYREFLECTION

Hold Tight to the Handhold

One day, Qais ibn ʿAbbād was sitting in the masjid when a man walked in. He was calm, humble, and carried a light about him.
The people around whispered, “That’s ʿAbdullah ibn Salām, a man from the people of Jannah.”

When Qais asked him if it was true, ʿAbdullah ibn Salām replied,
“Subḥān Allah, people shouldn’t say what they can’t be sure of.
But I did once have a dream during the time of the Prophet ﷺ.”

The Dream

He said,
“I entered a vast garden, full of beauty and light. In the center stood a tall pole. At the top of the pole was a grip, a handhold. I was told, ‘Climb and take hold of it.’
I looked up and said, ‘How can I ever reach it?’ Then an angel came beneath me, a powerful wind lifted me until I grasped it with my hand. And when I awoke, I found myself still holding that grip.”

When he told the Prophet ﷺ about the dream, the Prophet ﷺ said:

“The garden is the garden of Islam. The pole is the pillar of Islam. The handhold is al-ʿurwat al-wuthqā, the firm, trustworthy grip.”

Then he told him,
“You will remain upon Islam until you die.”

The Grip That Never Slips

That phrase al-ʿurwat al-wuthqā appears in the Qur’an:
“Whoever holds firmly to Allah has grasped the most trustworthy handhold.”

It’s the image of faith that never lets go, even when the world is shaking beneath you. Allah tells us again and again to hold on:

• “Hold fast to the rope of Allah, all together.”
  Because the world will divide us and distract us.
  

• “Hold firmly to what We have given you.”
  Because faith is not a soft thing, it requires strength, conviction, and constancy.
  

And the Prophet ﷺ warned us that a time would come when patience would feel like holding a burning coal, when temptations would be everywhere, and the easy path would always be the wrong one.

So he said,
“Hold on to my Sunnah. Bite onto it with your molar teeth.”

What Holding On Means

Faith today isn’t always about discovering something new it’s about not letting go of what we already know to be true. The rope of Allah, the Sunnah of His Messenger, the prayer, the Qur’an these are not habits to check off, they are lifelines in a world that keeps pulling at your grip.

Holding on will sometimes burn. It may cost you comfort, popularity, or ease.
But the one who keeps holding on will never fall, because what they’re holding is anchored in eternity.

A Simple Reminder

Every time you feel the world pulling at your hand, remember the pole in ʿAbdullah ibn Salām’s dream. Remember that the wind that lifted him was not his own strength, but Allah’s mercy.

You don’t need to climb alone; you just need to hold firm. Because once your hand finds that grip, it will carry you all the way to Jannah.

REFLECT ON THIS:

What is one practice of faith you’ve let slip from your grip, and how can you take hold of it again today?

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WATERMELONWATCH

• US forces are now working with Gaza Strip aid coordination under the cease-fire led by Israel, but aid agencies say volumes remain far below what is needed for the 2.3 million displaced people.

• Israeli-settler attacks in the West Bank reached the highest monthly total ever recorded in October at 264 incidents, averaging eight per day. Civilians and children were among the victims.

• Humanitarian workers report that despite progress, more than 90% of Gaza’s population lacks secure access to basic services such as shelter, food or medical care, needs remain “immense”.

• Azerbaijan said it will only send peacekeepers to Gaza if there is a full stop to hostilities, showing that international stabilisation plans depend heavily on durable cease-fire compliance.

• Another body of an Israeli hostage was handed over by militants in Gaza even as the cease-fire remains fragile and violations continue, a reminder of ongoing human cost behind diplomatic efforts.

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