The Psychology of Tawakkul

DAILYREFLECTION

You know that awkward moment when you’ve given someone the task and then you hover?

We do this with people. Worse, we do it with Allah.

We “hand it over,” then keep peeking: “Ya Rabb, quick update—did You… um… finish that?”

Here’s the thing: hovering isn’t tawakkul. It’s anxiety and a lack of trust in a pious outfit.

The Arabic root behind Wakīl paints a picture: someone too limited—too slow, too weak, or simply unable—to carry a task to completion, so they assign it to someone competent. When we say “Hasbunallahu wa ni‘mal Wakīl,” we’re saying, “I’ve taken this as far as I can. The rest I’m entrusting to you Allah.”

So what isn’t ours? People’s hearts, people’s reactions, people’s timelines. The Prophet ﷺ couldn’t control whether someone accepted or rejected the call, whether they softened today and hardened tomorrow or vice versa.

What is ours? The domain Allah placed in our hands: our worship and our obedience. Your standing at night is in your control. Your dhikr. Your integrity at work. Your patience with family. Your tongue when it wants to “just say one little thing.” These are your keys. And the Day you meet Allah, He’ll ask, “What did you do with what you could move?”

Here’s the psychology bit researchers talk about locus of control—healthy and productive people act and focus on where they have agency completely and release what they can’t control or change.

So when the results stall—no growth in that project, your child still distant, your marriage effort not “responding”—remember: results aren’t your job description. Even in your own growth and progress, results are not in your control. Your job is sincere effort and clean intention. The One who writes outcomes will write them when and how He wills. Your job in this is to work and trust.

REFLECT ON THIS:

What result am I trying to control that does not belong to me?

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WATERMELONWATCH

• Israeli military announced a ceasefire in Gaza took effect at noon local time, with troops pulling back to pre-agreed lines.

• UNICEF urges that full access be restored to all aid crossings, warning that child deaths could soon spike unless food and medical supplies flow freely.

• UN chief welcomed the Gaza deal as a step toward Palestinian statehood, calling for all parties to seize the moment to advance political progress.

• Palestinian Authority is positioning itself to play a major role in post-war Gaza governance, even as U.S. proposals sideline it in favor of international technocrats.

• Israel’s ratification of the agreement formalizes its commitment to the ceasefire, though questions remain on implementation and on long-term stability.

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Lillāh (لِلَّهِ) - To Allah / Belongs to Allah

A phrase of surrender and certainty, lillāh, places everything in its rightful place. Whether it’s praise, ownership, or return, it reminds us: nothing is truly ours. All that we have, all that we are, and all that will be… is for Him, and to Him.